There is something truly humbling in watching things grow. It could be a friendship, or it could be my spinach sprouts :-) but the fundamental curiosity prevails. Watching things grow is exciting but at times cumbersome with various chores needed to maintain healthy growth. I believe everyone would agree with me when I say that growth is the most vital component in keeping any relationship healthy. Growing together is what most aim for; I doubt anyone purposely grows apart (but old ppl; jk grandma!). Of course, This would make since if the passion in a relationship has descended and one decides the cowardly way out is the best. Which all and all may never work; that is if you are aiming to get out of the relationship.
I of all people understand that love and other complex human emotion seems quite illogical, especially if you live in a world of algorithms and related rate :-) but we all have emotions. We all feel thing which we can't full explain and rightfully so. If everything in life was easily explainable life would be boring as hell. The important thing is that we try to make sense of the complete nonsense. It is important that we realize that it isn't the destination that we live for, it is but the journey. I don't solve problems dealing with the physical world so that I can throw numbers at you; I solve problem to discuss various methods and techniques. (How do you solve your differential equation?) I find someones interpretation of music/plays/poem just as important as their method the solving 3rd degree polynomials or their reasons for using a curtain proportion.
Nothing in this world should be obvious and if you believe something is truly obvious you have fixed your way of thinking such that nothing requires dynamic thought. I am a big advocate for dynamic thought. We must think dynamically because we are dynamic beings living in a dynamic world. So let us grow our spinach and solve our equations and fall in love with our friends because that is who we are and all we will ever be and we should learn to be ok with that. After all if you truly understand what I'm talking about you know things in life won't be that way for ever. It is but yet another relative extrema in our ever changing lives.
Interesting thoughts. The last paragraph was well said! I definitely have to agree that "dynamic thought" as you put it, is essential for us to truly experience our world and move forward.
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